If what you do and what you like is unappealing and comes with cultural baggage (for example, I always swipe left on women who are into musical theater, because I’m prejudiced), you are setting yourself up to be judged on what you do rather than who you are.
Tinder is entirely based on snap-judgment matching.
Sometimes it seems I’m swimming in a very shallow dating pool, but I haven’t given up and taken in fifty cats. So here’s the down-low on dating sites I’ve tried as a SWM (single working mother). And remember: You can do it at home, at night after the kids go to bed, in your pajamas if you want. You set it up through your Facebook account and set your preferences within minutes.
You won’t waste time filling out large forms and questionnaires, and your pictures are right there on Facebook.
Cons: Since you’re limited with your search parameters, you may sift through a lot of matches just to find one decent guy. Bumble Pros: What makes it unique is women have to pitch the first message. While there have been one or two saucy gentlemen I’ve come across, for the most part the men have wanted to go on dates pretty quickly.
From search alone you only know age and distance, and then it’s up to the men to fill in the blanks briefly with some profile description. This leaves you wondering things like: • How tall is he? (My experience with Tinder was that men could waste your precious single-mom minutes messaging you back and forth.) Bumble’s biggest plus: You can “take back” a negative, left swipe for free (unlike Tinder)!
Tinder is a judgment-based app, so why offer all those left-swiping judges incriminating evidence? A short man will be swiped past, so he adds a few inches.
No one has ever made a funny joke or brought anything new to the table or even said anything mildly interesting in their “About Me.” There are precisely five categories of information expressed in “About Me” sections: 1. Then when he shows up on the first date, everyone knows he’s a liar. The common denominator here is that these are all pieces of information that are under your control, and by divulging them too early you lose control over them.
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