Just make sure he’s smiling at you, and not the girl behind you. Examples here could be having their feet pointed in the same direction, crossing or uncrossing of legs, blinking, cracking knuckles, etc.
Body Language Flirting Sign #3: Making Frequent Eye Contact Two simple points here: First, all guys (including Christian guys) are attracted by sight, and have a healthy appreciation for the female attributes, including a woman’s eyes, face and figure.
This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage.
Now while you might start getting really excited by this prospect, this particular guy has probably gotten freaked out.
At this point, he’s afraid that everything he said in the beginning has led you to believe that you guys are a couple and he starts acting in a way that shows you this is not the case.
He cancels plans, he goes MIA for days at a time, he acts distant.
At the root of it, the same sense of insecurity that made the guy obsessed with finding out if you like him is now scaring him into thinking that you’re going to “take his freedom away.” Generally speaking, most guys have a fear of being “trapped” in a relationship, but in this particular scenario you’re dealing with a guy who’s actions are especially dictated by avoiding unpleasant situations as a primary motivator.
Dating as an institution is a relatively recent phenomenon which has mainly emerged in the last few centuries.