In case your excitement and romance distracts you – if the relationship goes awry- will you be as efficient as you usually are?Ultimately, you were given that job to accomplish particular tasks for the company or organization you work for.This system obviously has advantages over night-time pick-ups in darkened clubs, holiday romances, (notoriously short-lived), or blind dates arranged by friends. High-powered City workers of the Nineties are accustomed to using the office as a complete life- support system. Making a pass is a dangerous manoeuvre in the workplace. Trying to blur the lines between business and pleasure will appear sleazy.If your interest is not reciprocated you could be accused of sexual harassment or - at least - end up looking sad and sleazy once the office gossips have done their worst. How highly do you value this person as an employee/ colleague/ friend? This would entail getting someone to work late at the office and then taking them out for a meal "because it's too late to go home and cook" or taking them away on a business conference and making sure your rooms are next door to one another. Working well with someone means being relaxed with them - and that is impossible if you're not sure whether they're trying to seduce you or not.IT HAS been estimated that up to half of us meet our future partners through or at work, which makes it a significant venue for budding romance.There are obvious plus points to meeting your partner at work: 1. Office crushes for sure make the workday interesting, and it gives you the inspiration for dressing sharply despite the day of the week. Is it a disaster that is waiting to occur or is it fortunate for you?You might already know how your crush treats peers or handles stress.
Work-based relationships aren’t always superficial and it is almost inevitable that at some point in your career you’ll develop a crush on someone at work.Another day, another rumour that workmates Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart have mistaken the Twilight set for the back of the bike sheds.“They’re like a couple of love-struck teenagers,” says a source. Co-stars are always getting it on, thanks to their outrageous prettiness and the long hours they spend together on set.That failed, now I'm with him and nearly every rule I had is broken.He is 18, I'm 21 - I've always dated older (usually at least 3-4 years older than me)He's a workmate - we see each other every weekday as we work in the same office and do the same job so we always have queries for each other.You know you will have at least one thing in common, as well as an informed ear to bounce all your troubles off when you get home in the evening; 2.